等我回來的時候，我將開始新的生活！Look! Nick is down to Mexico, I'm going to go visit him.I'm not gonna to drink, I'm not gonna to smoke;I'm gonna right, I'm gonna meditate;I'm gonna eat healthy, and I'm gonna swim, and I'm gonna work out, and I'm gonna write about all these feelings that are way up down inside of me. And when I get back, I'll get a place and job. I'm gonna call Ben today, I'm gonna set up an appointment. But I need to go away, and when I come back, I'll be ready for life. 或許我們都曾許諾過，逃離當下的生活和境遇，去另一個城市，“洗心革面”般地開始一段短暫美好令人憧憬的"理想生活"；然后再借由這段理想生活的剩余力氣重新沖進不曾改變的一團亂的生活和境遇一切如故，甚至更糟如電影中的主人公，一通電話立即返回紐約的家中接著，請允許我給你講一個動人的故事： James: Where do you wanna be?Gail: Paris!James: You hear the sounds on the streets, the cars on the street.(Sigh) The wind, relax your mind. My wife and I move there, we got two beautiful boys. You live next door in a beautiful one bedroom, you have all your books. Gail: I want some Billie. (Billie Holiday was an American jazz musician and singer-songwriter) James: You show my children all the museums on Sundays; you teach them about everything. We have dinner in my house every Friday as a family. Smells the flowers from the flora market. See Louvre, see Rodin in garden, see me happy, see me as a father, see me as a kind and loving man, see me smile to see you happy. My children love their grandma. You watch them grown up, you tell them my secret when they're old enough. You meet a man you love, he's French. Gail: Expat...James: What? Gail: ExpatJames: Expat. He's a wonderful man fits perfectly in our family. He loves you, he inspires you, he values you. He holds your hands for everything. He's an adventurist. He loves you, you are surrounded by people you love who love you. You're safe. You're responsible for all these beauty. Thank you, thank you for giving me this life and help me create this myself. 小時候，媽媽總是給我們描繪一個美好世界，它或許源于安徒生故事里的情節(jié)，或許源于媽媽對我們產(chǎn)生的愛意而下意識編織的童話夢；轉(zhuǎn)眼間，媽媽年華老去孩子長大成人，角色間的轉(zhuǎn)換，是時候由我們?yōu)閶寢屜胂笠粋€可以戰(zhàn)勝癌癥的美好的生活能逗笑你，我就已然感受到幸福最后，我們必須在夾縫中毅然生存！We feel good things, way up here;But we feel bad things, way way, way down there. And we got try to remember, there are the space in between, we got try to live in there too, right? 請好好地活下去！也親眼看著我慢慢地變好起來，我保證對不起，我愛你由于工作的原因，會接觸一些患有老年癡呆，阿茲海默綜合癥和殘疾的老年人電影里媽媽的角色因為癌癥第四期出現(xiàn)的一些并發(fā)癥我在工作環(huán)境中時常也接觸到，比如記憶力的衰退或者混亂，情緒快速轉(zhuǎn)變，易怒，甚至失語癥等等也真的在工作中遇見了和電影《飛越瘋?cè)嗽骸防锩娴柠溈四埔粯忧邦~葉白質(zhì)被切除的老年人，并不是成為了植物人，只是真的沒有情緒波動

硬要形容的話，大概是devil face.電影的結(jié)局，媽媽“鬧”了一場令人哭笑不得的烏龍，相反地，卻驚醒了James, 仿佛是上天又給了他一次機會，讓他品嘗失而復(fù)得，從而去履行自己的保證的機會。

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電影告訴我們，一團糟的生活和境遇，從來都不能依靠一段理想生活的后勁去面對并解決，我們要做的是，反復(fù)品嘗失去的滋味，然后牢記重新得到后的珍惜與狂喜附上一篇關(guān)于這部電影的報道：http://www.vulture.com/2015/11/james-white-new-york-magazine-cynthia-nixon.html 你應(yīng)該知道關(guān)于這部電影的九件事日記的標題取自這篇報道所說的倒數(shù)第二件事最后想說，實在很難過的時候，告訴自己：It's Okay to be sad.