說句實(shí)話，電影劇情不出彩，邏輯上也有很多漏洞，沒有高潮，整個過程讓人感覺到壓抑沉悶但是我仍然推薦這部電影，為一群特殊的人：那些生活在因第三者而父母離異陰影下的孩子們電影引起我的共鳴，一方面是主演們精彩的表演（情感表現(xiàn)的太到位了），另一方面是影片的立意先放一段影片立意的集中體現(xiàn)：“My name is Mathias Gold. When I used to have friends, they called me Jim, and I would answer. I grew up on Park Avenue in New York City. My parents were wealthy. I was born with a silver knife in my back. Anytime anyone follows their heart, someone else gets their heart broken. There’s always detritus, always hurt, always pain. Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old. My father took every ounce of love he had and dumped it in Paris. People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There's a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't need those people, because you don't.”作為因第三者父母離異而受到一定傷害的人，看到Mathias Gold這段獨(dú)白的時候淚目了有過相同經(jīng)歷的人都會問自己，那個可憐而渺小的自己：我做錯了什么？是因?yàn)槲易鲥e了什么才讓這個家庭分崩離析嗎？是我做錯了什么父母親才不愿意愛我嗎？最后就像主角所說的，我們以為自己被上帝詛咒，最后才終于明白，是我們的父母親傷害了我們而這種傷害持續(xù)著，哪怕我們已經(jīng)白發(fā)蒼蒼，內(nèi)心的某處角落里那個不被愛的孩子仍然在無助的張望可這部影片為我們展現(xiàn)了“救贖”作為兩個家庭的受害者（男女主），他們在剝開真相的過程中絕望瘋狂，茫然無助，最后相互依偎，也終于懂得了：“我們不必期待或等待父母的改變，因?yàn)槲覀儾恍枰?，時間會沖淡一切，而生命是掌握在自己手中的，我們要為自己燦爛的活下去”我其實(shí)不太愿意聊電影中母親的角色，無關(guān)于演員（演員真的非常棒）男女主童年的悲劇她要承擔(dān)一半責(zé)任，但是在她犯下錯誤（也許她不認(rèn)為那是錯誤）的幾十年光陰中，她從未認(rèn)為她傷害了兩個孩子的童年這是個可悲的事情，在她追隨著自己的心而活的時候，無可避免的會傷害一些人，這其中就包括她親生女兒電影中女主人說了一句話：在你15歲之前你是我的孩子，15歲之后你是我的女兒我從未要求過你陪在我身邊一輩子！她以為那個被戴了綠帽的丈夫會愛這個女兒，但在她的垂垂暮年才發(fā)現(xiàn)她女兒并不曾被父母任何一方愛過的事實(shí)

我能深刻感受到女主的絕望，她一直在等待著，默默陪伴守護(hù)在母親身邊，乞求一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)母愛。

最后獻(xiàn)給所有受到過相同傷害的朋友們：愿你們?nèi)缰鹘且粯油瓿伞熬融H”，讓時間慢慢沖淡童年的傷害，認(rèn)真勇敢的為自己而活。

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