2020見到太多針對女性的恐怖暴力事件，當女性開始發(fā)聲，我們見到了更多滲透在各個角落里的對女性歧視各行各業(yè)的女性工作者也在一起從社會各個維度諸如道德、法律、醫(yī)療、傳媒、教育等總結(jié)出來patriarchy對女性的全方位無死角鉗制和壓迫此紀錄片里對歷史學家的采訪最讓我印象深刻，她提到了原始母系社會的吉光片羽，還有母系社會為什么讓權(quán)給patriarchy，而patriarchy又是如何殘暴壓制母系社會的復蘇

看了《無父無夫的國度》摩梭族現(xiàn)存的母系社會狀態(tài)，猶如一個燈塔一樣的存在。

我們看到了社會的a面，也應該多思考下b面

紀錄片的主要觀點匯總?cè)缦拢?.Dating game 1）Sex is more important for women.2）Women have long list about expectation details, while only few man can match it.3）Women are out-performing men in nearly every category.4）Decreased expections of marriage, women depend on themselves.2.pills1）Pills decrease sex drive, because pills make body stop producing the hormonetestoterone (激素睪酮）2）pills change the structure of brain，which affect women’s opinions about man. 3）About sex women value minds, while man value actions.in this society female doesn’t show their desire of sex , but keep it internal.3.historyIn “her story”, there were a lot of sexual freedom, and more peace and harmony. So the idea that man is primitive and aggressive in his essence is wrong. But that changed by an enormous climate crises around 3000 dc. Many ice ages dried up the earth， and made the world very cold so that people couldn’t live and work on the land anymore. Then men start to conquer land of other people to live on. Then they built a man-dominated society which were very suppressive for women. When people settled down in settlements and cities, the women also stayed very free and could choose their partners, so sexuality was really something bigger than a biological or medical thing. It was emotional and psychological and spiritual thing. The oldest profession in the world: prostitution in history, but in her story its midwifery The midwife help the pregnant women to delieve babies, using herbs to relax muscles. She had a lot of herbal knowledge and a lot about control birth. That’s why they had so much sexual freedom. Women in the past knew much more about anti-conception than women today. At the end of the Middle Ages in Europe, there became a serious illness, a plague, and the reputation was decimated. Many villages and lands were empty, the church and state thought ‘ we had to repopulatie’, and they thought, well, who manages fertility, who control fertility. That was midwife. And they thought ‘let’s remove them, let’s call them witches. The literal meaning of the word ‘witch’ means ’to know’.( I always thought the ‘witch’ is a negative word, but it’s actually about knowledge.) midwifes has the ancient knowledge about managing fertility, about reducing fertility, and enhancing fertility. So these wise women was accused of witchery. And a witch hunt started. So we had a high sex drive, but then the church took it away. Yes. We in our western cultures dad a long long and very tragic history of sex repression, repression of the libido, recession of body awareness. Sex was perverse. Sex was vulgar. And we have this split between sexuality and religion. Where is that freedom we had? 4.pornplayboy 50’ 女權(quán)運動 60’ playgirl 70’5.fifty shades of grey1)社會壓抑了女性對性的表達，但是女性內(nèi)心對性是有不低的欲望的。

2)讀者心理需求：“In what way can I, as an average woman, have sex with an alpha male, and still remain my innocence.” “ adresses the duality that almost every woman faces, I believe that deep inside every woman is a crazy sex drive waiting to unleashed. But at the same time , society teaches women to be well and properbehaved. But managed to unlock this secretly allowing a women’s sex drive to be unleashed, while still maintain some kind of sexual innocence.”6.Philosophy王爾德：除了性本身，所有一切都有關(guān)于性，而性是關(guān)于權(quán)力的。

Bernays discovered that woman were driven by deep, primitive, sexual and competitive urges. Man-drive society 男權(quán)社會 1）Penis envy2）Polygamous（ 一夫多妻制）， law of the vital few3）Sex in its ultimate form is the transfer of power “Men need power in order to gain access to sex, but once they are having it, they lose power . But woman’s power increase.” 4)“Female’s orgasm can be 10 times more powerful than the man’ orgasm. The female clitoris contain 15,000 nerve endings （神經(jīng)末梢), while the head of the penis only has 4,000 nerve endings. Can you imagine what it’s like when these 15,000 sexual nerve endings fire all at once? Well, it creates forces —a force so strong that it almost shuts down a woman’s brain. And at that point, all memory, emotions, and reasoning function stop.5)And this event is so powerful that some may even call it spiritual (形而上性) . Most people only know about two dimensions when they talk about sexual activities, the physical and emotional. But some women can reach a third dimension when they climax: the spiritual. They describe it as a place where they can finally let go of all the physical and emotional baggages.” ——so, you don’t actually leave your body, but you have the feel that you have left everything behind? ——yes, exactly.